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Sex, Drugs, & Rock-n-Roll: Trade Show Traps and Tips
Wedding Receiving Line EtiquetteGreeting Your Guests With Style Sex, Drugs & Rock-n-RollEven though its a great tradition with a long history, some couples choose not to greet their guests in a receiving line fearing that this might take too long. ..... Heres the Scenario... Youre at a trade show. Out of town. Its probably an unfamiliar city. Maybe overseas. Lots of strangers. Theres a client or two. A couple of buddies. Lots of opportunities to do business. Lots of opportunities to get yourself in a bind. This Commentary is about how to stay out of trouble, save your dignity and keep your job. Trade shows are hard work - both physically and emotionally. Its tiring to travel. Hard to be away from home. Boring to be pleasant and smile for hours. And, a blow to the ego when people ignore you, dont respond to your comments, look the other way when passing your booth, or just say no to your offer. Theres pressure to produce. Talk with prospects. Entertain clients. Look for partners. Scout out the competition. Get the business. And, increasingly because of technology - e-mail, e-fax, cell phones - keep up with your real job at the same time. So, its easy to fall into the traps of your normal stress reducers - the inter-relationships of sex, drugs & rock-n-roll. The Lectures and the Tips... How To Clean Your Jewelry I call these behaviors - Things your mother taught you not to To keep your jewelry sparkling you've got to take care of it! Cleaning your jewelry is an important part of its care. No matter how careful you are ..... do, but since youre away and you think nobody knows you, you can get away with them. Sorry, somebody does know. And thats you. Sex - Ah, how nice it is to be loved. Or at least enjoyed for a short period. The temptations and availability of anonymous sex are high when youre away plus theres the chance to have a rendezvous with a co-worker, client or other business acquaintance. Magic moments fizzle fast when the sun comes up. Remember, your life is longer than the trade show. Drugs - Does your company have a policy that allows you to buy, sell and use illegal drugs? Doubt it. You are on company time from the moment you leave your home until you return. Not only do you endanger your career and industry reputation, you run the risk of breaking US and foreign laws. Jail? Not a nice experience. Note that the U.S. Embassy cannot bail you out if you break foreign laws. Are you traveling with legitimate prescription drugs? Keep them with you in the original bottles with the pharmacists labels, keep a written copy of the prescription details in another location (in case you lose the vials and need refills). And most importantly, dont double up doses because you feel ill or uncomfortable. Check with your physician before you leave in case you have a minor emergency. This is especially true if you have allergies, a heart condition or use mood levelers. For example doubling tranquilizers may calm you to the point of stupor. Rock-n-Roll - Hey, its Party Time. Free beer. Free booze. Lots of great food. Music to rock by. Business is on a roll. Youre king of the hill and queen for a day, youre entertaining and being entertained. What a life! With some clients and in some cultures, youre expected to indulge in Party Time behavior. Drink a lot. Its OK to get drunk. Cozy up to the hostesses. Let your hair down and have a good time. Party hardy. Heres a secret - You can still be pleasant, have a good time and stay sober. Why be a prude when party opportunities abound? Because youre smart. You know alcohol loosens lips. Your hosts are now willing to brag about their business - details on the newest product, personnel shifts, corporate goals and insider gossip. If youre sloshed, you wont remember. If youre drinking club soda with lime, you will. Conversely, when youre drinking, you may trash your boss, reveal company secrets, ask the wrong person for a favor and be generally boastful and obnoxious. Youll be memorable for all the wrong reasons. Mommy...Daddy...Is There Really A Santa Claus? When sober, youre smarter because youre gathering Is there really a Santa Claus? Any parent who hasn't been faced with this question most likely will at some point. But how do you answer this? No one wants to crush a ..... critical market intelligence - information to get you ahead of your competition and be a leader in industry trends. Remember, at a trade show and all surrounding events, you are what people perceive as Your Company. How you act is how people view your firm. The Solutions... There are ways to avoid these traps. Here are perfectly legitimate excuses for not indulging in wayward behavior, but you have to make the rational decision to use them. Think first of your health. Anything you knowingly do that endangers the health of you and your family is stupid, and hard to explain. Keep the wedding band on. Be polite and say no. The major VDs are still around, though treatable. But as global travel expands, new viruses and diseases are popping up and transmuting. Besides the emotional trauma associated with sexual escapades, the health risks are just not worth it. Understand your corporate policies from using drugs to paying bribes to accepting gifts. Whats standard at the office, applies away from the office. If you dont know your policies, ask before you go. Better be safe than sorry. The Truth About Platinum Examine your religious beliefs and laws. Adultery is a big Is platinum a new metal' After all, in the past, one would associate diamonds with gold. Nowadays, the most expensive fine jewelry designs set diamonds in platinum. The ..... sin in most religions. So are lying, cheating and stealing. We all want to do business with people who are trustworthy. Its your responsibility to demonstrate that. Trust your gut. If youre uncomfortable in a situation, get out. Whether its physical danger or an emotional jolt, your intuition is your best guide. You can say No, thanks. Because of health, corporate policy, beliefs and intuition. But the main reasons is because youre a trustworthy person. http://www.TradeShowTraining.com -- 800-355-3910 |
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