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The wedding celebration in Cana was in full swing. Joy and

celebration filled the air. There was a deep sense of kinship

among the guests. There was happy music and spirited dance.

There was also an acute shortage of wine.



Since wedding festivities typically went on for several days,

great embarrassment was on the horizon. Mary quietly advised her

Son of the predicament. Knowing the profound import of her next

words, she issued a simple directive to the servants to "...do

whatever he tells you" (Jn 2:5). Moments later, heaven touched

earth.



From the moment she spoke, Mary knew that Jesus would no longer

be able to blend quietly into village life. She started her Son

on his mission with no idea what that mission entailed. She knew

not of the master plan God had crafted from the dawn of time -

the coming rejection, suffering and death that would be the

price of salvation. She was unaware of the depths of divine

mercy. She only knew that God was in charge and it was not

important that she understand, only that she trust.



We never hear from Mary again in Scripture. Throughout the years

of her Sons earthly ministry, none of her words are recorded.

Accounts of his passion and death noted only her presence, but

no consoling prayer, anguished cry or stinging rebuke directed

at his persecutors. Descriptions of Jesuss miraculous

Resurrection offered no mention of his mothers reaction. Even

the narrative of his Ascension included no reference to a

parting dialogue or simple goodbye between mother and Son.



Some might think Mary was slighted by the inspired authors of

Sacred Scripture. Others might feel that she was rightly

overshadowed by her divine Son. Still others contend that her

scriptural silence, in itself, possessed vast theological

implications.



Perhaps another insight merits consideration. Maybe the Blessed

Mother said all that needed to be said. While her command to the

servants saved her wedding host much embarrassment, it was only

a means to an end. Her directive was infused with a

transcendence far beyond Cana. As any good mother would do, Mary

offered all her children loving, yet firm, parental guidance.

Quite simply, her last recorded words made clear the way to

salvation.



Through the bewildered wedding servants, she reminds all

generations of Christians to "...do whatever he tells you." No

other message is necessary. No other instruction more profound.

Mary quietly passes into the shadows of Scripture making sure

her children know what she expects of them. Her haunting words

continually remind us of the simplicity of the Christian faith.

All we have to do is follow the path her Son carefully laid out,

which is to serve the world through his bride, the Church.



Marys words penetrate deep into the hallways of the heart. They

imbed in the fabric of the soul. Despite such presence, we often

fail miserably at living up to the Blessed Mothers simple

mandate. Why does honoring the "whatever" part of Marys

instruction demand so much? Maybe its because she knows her

divine Son accepts nothing less than all we have to give. He

sets the bar at perfection. He is not interested in lukewarm

faith or partial commitment. He has no time for minimalism. His

is an unrelenting challenge, one which never stops asking for

more.



Its not as if we havent been given the proper tools for the

job. Jesus took special care to remind us of faiths foundation

in the Ten Commandments. He presented the Beatitudes so that we

understood what it meant to die to self. He rounded out our

understanding of the Christian mission through parables,

discourses and miracles. Then he died to show us that love has

no limits. Perpetual lessons taught through the power of a life

perfectly lived.



Those lessons should give us pause. When I closed that last

business deal, did I comply with his instruction to do unto

others as I would want done to myself? When suffering came my

way, did I take up the cross without whining? When praise was

proffered, did I divert the spotlight to the true giver of the

skill being praised? In the midst of tragedy, did I attempt to

discern Gods will among the ruins? How close did I come each

day to honoring the "whatever" part of Marys message?



In our childhood we learned to obey our mother, honor her place

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in the family, and respect her counsel. Mother guided,

corrected, and cajoled as necessary to draw out the best in each

of us. Often she only needed a single word or a telling glance

and we understood exactly what instruction she wished to impart.

Her messages, always, were infused with a love that was utterly

impossible to comprehend. Well, our heavenly mother has spoken.

She has given us the most crucial advice in the history of the

world. Across the ages, our Blessed Mother has reminded us to

"do whatever He tells you." We would be wise to take her advice

to heart.



About the author:

Gary Shirley, his wife, and three children are members of St.

Catherine of Siena Parish in Kennesaw, Georgia, where Gary

serves as catechist in the adult education program. Gary is an

Archdiocese of Atlanta certified catechist (both PSR and RCIA)

with 14 years teaching experience. Email him at

backtothebasics@searchlogixgroup.com.



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